Introduction
Self Doubt Has a Chapter Though: I Only Have to Skip It.
Self-doubt paralyzes you almost like sleep paralysis, seeming like an inevitable chapter in your creative journey. As a result, conquering self-doubt then becomes the focus, overshadowing the main star of your dreams. You are not alone. Most creators struggling with self-doubt never believe they are good enough. They believe their works never measure up and that they don’t have what it takes But here’s the thing, self-doubt has every right to be a chapter in your story all you need to do is skip it.
Why Self-Doubt Happens:
One develops self-doubt while comparing oneself to others and setting unrealistic targets and goals for oneself. In addition, this often stems from the desire to crawl before one walks or to live above one’s means. Social media heightens this as we are fed images of others portrayed as flawless creations. What we see are highlight reels, not the struggles behind the scenes. Impostor Syndrome and Overcoming Self-doubt is a helpful guide that explores how these feelings contribute to anxiety and offers strategies to overcome them. Additionally, understanding these struggles can help shift our mindset and properly position us to achieve.
Moving past Self-Doubt:
Here are a few effective strategies to help you overcome self-doubt:
- Focus On Small Wins: identify each step of your goals and break them into smaller manageable tasks. This will give you a sense of accomplishment, building your confidence over time. A typical example would be, instead of saying “I would write an album before the first quarter of this year,” begin with “I’m going to write a mind-blowing track within the first quarter of this year.” Consequently, celebrate that achievement and let it propel you forward. If you’re looking for inspiration, read my blog post on Turning Musical Dreams Into Reality to help guide you.
- Seek Feedback and Support: do not create in total isolation. However, Work with trusted friends or mentors who can provide constructive feedback. They will reduce the hassle of going back and forth, and help you see your work from different perspectives, highlighting the strengths you didn’t know you had.
- Remind Yourself Of Past Success: keep a journal where you note all your successes no matter how little. Revisit it each time self-doubt creeps in. This will remind you of how much you’ve achieved motivating you to keep the momentum going.
- Embrace Imperfection: understand that perfection is an illusion. Your work only needs to be genuine and not flawless. Embrace your imperfections as they make your work unique.
In conclusion:
Self-doubt has interesting chapters in your story, but you must skip it each time. Do not empower a section of your thoughts and rob the world of your uniqueness.
Next time you feel self-doubt creeping in as it always does, try these strategies and watch your perspectives align positively in due time. The story isn’t over yet. Your best chapters are yet to be written. Keep creating, and most importantly keep being yourself.